There's no point in denying the fact that most women have body issues. For some reason, it's easier for women to think that their bodies are 'really bad' instead of 'really hot'.

This insecurity may undermine your efforts at trying to convince your woman to participate in your own erotic videos. So why not help her get more confidence in her body? Remember, the more body confident she is, the wilder she'll be in front of the camera!

How to Make Yourself Commit to Making an Erotic Video

Assuming that your partner is more or less willing to go with the idea of shooting your very own erotic video, the next thing you guys need to do is to set a date on when you will shoot the x-rated video.

Don't set a date that's too far down the road. Doing so will only give you both the time to 'chicken out' of the shoot. Instead, schedule the shoot exactly 30 days from today. (Of course, you can schedule it sooner if you guys are comfortable with that.)

The next thing you need to do is to see if you guys have the equipment for the video shoot. Do you have a video camera? Tripod? The right lighting for the room? If you do not have these materials, then do out and buy them... NOW. This will server to make you more committed to the x-rated video shoot.

Tip: If you guys are cool with the idea, do the same thing as one of my clients did: book a professional videographer in advance. Again, the idea that you've already spent all this time and money and having somebody 'scheduled' to be with you on that day, will make you guys more committed to the shoot.

Now that you've taken care of all these commitment factors, let's go back to the body issues that may be preventing you and/or your partner from agreeing to make an erotic video together... and how to deal with them.

How to Have a Rocking Body on Tape

Every person has already heard that one looks about 10 pounds heavier in front of the camera. So how can you have a rocking body in front of it in just 30 days?

Get a new do. Some may start with diet and exercise but for women, it's such a mental boost if you can give yourselves a 'new look' you can experience NOW that will help inspire you to make further changes. And one of the easiest things to do first is to get a haircut. But do whatever works for you.

For instance, some female clients of mine prefer to buy two sets of sexy lingerie; one to be used now to inspire them to lose weight, the other for the actual x-rated shoot. For guys, pictures or posters of guys with great abs are great inspiration.

Eat well. Well, nobody said it would be easy. There really is no way to lose weight and look physically better than to regulate your diet. However, this does not mean you need to give up everything! Most culprits are high-carb foods and taking in too much sodium (responsible for water retention). As such, simply cutting down on these two will already help your body a lot!

Exercise. Losing weight is faster if you supplement your new diet with a few exercise routines. Again, nothing major, just 30 mins a day of active movement will do.

Here's a great tip from one of my clients: power yoga. It's relaxing and doesn't feel like you're exercising at all, yet your entire body is being 'worked'. What's more, it makes the body suppler for all those bedroom moves!

Here's another rocking tip: don't just do exercises, do SEXercises! As the name suggests, do a bit of 'practice' and do some daring sex positions - off camera of course -
that will make you crunch those abs, bend those legs and stretch those arms!

Get a tan. Getting a tan gives your body that nice, sleek, bronzed look. In fact, it's one great way to 'cheat' and look leaner on camera. Just remember to tan your whole body well. Tan lines on video don't look so hot.

Making your own x-rated video is a great idea that can do wonders for your sex life and romantic relationship. Don't let body issues prevent you guys from making this sex fantasy come true. A few minor changes in eating and activity habits are all it takes to have a rocking body on camera, so go get started!

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About the Author

Gabrielle Moore is owner of The Female Orgasm Revealed, a site to help men please their female partners with an orgasm every time. For more information, go to: http://www.femaleorgasmrevealed.com