How to Kill the Green Eyed Monster (Jelousy)
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Lets face it...
Jealousy Belief #1
If my partner really loved me, he/she wouldn’t have sexual desires for anyone else but me.
Jealousy Belief #2
My partner can only be interested in some one else if I’m not a good enough in bed.
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Jealousy Belief #3
It’s impossible to share love with more than one person at the same time.
This belief is built on the "scarcity economy” of love; the belief that love is a scarce resource, that only so much goes around and that there’s never enough for all.
If my partner gives away love (time, love, affection, sex, support) to anyone else, that means that there is less for me.
This belief creates fear and uncertainty. If this belief were true, then a mother wouldn’t be able to her love her first child as much after she gives birth to the second child because she would have to divide her love between two.
In my eyes love is infinite, and the more you give the more you will receive.
Amending Your Beliefs
The beliefs mentioned below are connected to three primal fears and you’ll need to work on eliminating these fears. It might take a bit of time and effort to adjust and to create a new set of beliefs.
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The first belief expresses a deep fear that you are not loved and will be abandoned.
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The second belief taps into insecurities and the fear of not being adequate or deserving of love
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The third belief is a fear of deprivation and being starved for love and attention.
Think for a moment how much influence these beliefs have had in your life so far.
Have compassion for yourself as you work with these beliefs and gradually replace them with beliefs that support your desire to embrace an open relationship.
Opting for a Better Set of Beliefs
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Solid commitment
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Good communication
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Sticking to agreements
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Reassuring each other's love before sexually playing with the 3rd person
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Listening to each other's concerns and taking them seriously whenever they arise
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Lovers-Guide.info: - How to Kill the Green Eyed Monster (Jelousy)
By Suzy Bauer
Author of Step by Step Threesome
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